Female Body Language: Courtship
Like men, women also use basic preening gestures, like fingering their hair, adjusting their clothing, putting hands on hips, pointing their body towards the male, extending an intimate gaze, having increased eye contact etc. All these signs indicate that the woman is ready for some kind of non-physical relationship or just a conversation. But there are some exceptions. For example, some people pull their hair, which could indicate child abuse, or physical abuse, since it is a nervous gesture.
In addition to this, women may demonstrate their need for attention by dilating their pupils and flushing their cheeks. Some other female signs for a relationship could be sideways glances, or looking into the mirror often, crossing and uncrossing their legs in front of a male, caressing their thighs or calf or knee. Another commonly seen gesture is the position of their footwear. If a woman is sitting with a man and her footwear is just balanced on her toe then it indicates a higher level of comfort in his company.
Some of the other gestures often seen are:
Hip Rolling: This is one of the most commonly observable gestures. It has been exploited by models to gain attention on the ramp and in various advertisements, by movie stars and even by prostitutes to attract clients. This kind of act is supposedly done by a female to increase her sex appeal. If a man acts out such a body language gesture, it indicates that he may be gay.
Wet Lips Gesture: Many females moisten their lips or put on a lot of lipstick to give them a wet look. This clearly gives a sexual invitation. Most working girls use this gesture to attract males or other clients. Still, this does not always mean a sexual invitation, since some females merely like to maintain their appearance or just dress for business.
Head Toss: One can see this gesture used by almost every woman. In this gesture, the woman flicks her head to toss her hair back over the shoulders or away from the face. Even women with short hair use this gesture in front of men. It is a clear demonstration of their interest in that man for some kind of a relationship.
Legs: Sexually aggressive women can be often seen with their legs more apart than their more conservative counterparts. This kind of gesture can be observed even in the presence of a male.
Along with the above-mentioned gesture, there are other gestures that women make with their legs. The most prominent one being the gesture of leg crossing. One leg is tucked up under the other and the knee points towards the person with whom she is sitting: it indicates her interest in that person. In this position, the woman may expose her thighs to steal the attention of the guy whom she finds interesting. The more desirous may intentionally uncover her thighs to give a clear-cut signal.
Another position, which indicates her relaxed state, is the way she plays with her footwear. Often a woman keeps playing with her shoe by pushing her foot in and out of it. Often women cross their legs in such a way that they are not too far apart but enough to attract a man’s interest.
Although these are the most common gestures of most women, still none of them should be taken as gospel and you should apply some common sense and logic before approaching a female for any kind of relationship based on observing of the afore-mentioned gestures of women’s body language gestures.
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