The way that you hypnotize a woman is to plant embedded suggestions in her mind so that she will do whatever you want her to do. The art of seduction is based on the building blocks of suggestion. You must repeatedly suggest to the female whom you are seducing what you want her to do. There is completely nothing dishonest with doing this, because women dress suggestive, speak suggestively, and do many things that are sexually suggestive. Women also use the power of suggestion to attract men.

Yet, as men, we ought to use suggestion in different ways. Although men can be suggestive through their dress and physical appearance, this generally is not enough because women are not the visual creatures that men are. It is the power of words that must be used to attract women, because they are auditory creatures. By knowing the verbal power of seduction, you will easily be able to seduce any woman you want, because your words will have a huge effect on them.

One of the most important events in my life that taught me the power of words over women was when I went to a lavish nightclub with a few friends one night. I saw a very good looking well dressed man sitting alone, and it was evident that he was waiting for women to approach him because he knew he was handsome. He sat and continued to wait for a woman to throw herself at him, and it never occurred. At the same time, their was another man at the nightclub who was not very good looking and as well dressed as the other guy. Anyway, the not so good looking man was continually approaching women, having conversations with them, getting some of their phone numbers, and establishing physical contact with them.

The amusing thing was that the good looking guy was watching the success that the not so good looking guy was having with women, and it was evident that he despised it. He was probably wondering why the girls were hanging out with a man who wasn’t as tall, good looking, or well dressed as he was. The man who was good looking had no clue that words were the hypnosis strategies necessary to mesmerize women, not good looks. Good looks can help of course, but in and of themselves, good looks are not worth very much to a man in the art of seduction. Every man can learn a lot from this story in order to understand the necessity of verbal language and how it must be learned if you want to persuade women.

Another essential piece of information you need to know about hypnotizing women through language is that this doesn’t mean you should give women too many compliments To many compliments are like too much perfume, you are better not without using any at all if you are going to use too much. It is good to use some compliments as you are seducing women in order to make them feel good around you, but the compliments you give them should be given hypnotically.

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We always want to know what we can do to save our marriage when we are on the brink of divorce. If you really put in the strength to saving your marriage it can be done. Why is divorced normally caused? It is because someone in the marriage is not getting what they want in the union. There are sorts of advice out there and everyone seems to be an expert but no matter what advice you read, you should always start with the causes of the divorce. If you do not know then you need to visit a professional to find out what they are and remember that it takes two for a marriage to be successful.

You may be asking yourself how you can do this. One way and the best way is to listen to what your partner is telling to you directly and indirectly. Are you totally submerged with the kids and not paying attention to your partner? Normally money is the number one reason for marital break ups. We are living in uncertain times these days so money problems are something that you should eliminate and conquer now. It is much easier to live together financially than apart. Keep in mind that it takes two people in a relationship for the relationship to have longevity.

You could find yourself in the predicament that your partner has found someone else. If this is the cause of the divorce, someone entering your marriage, then there is some strategy that you can take and implement when someone else is involved.

Since many centuries ago, there is no way you can file for divorce. Many people in a society believe that marriage is forever. Now, it is a different case. In almost all the states, it is easy to do so. All you need to do is state that you have a lot of difference with your spouse and the judge will submit to your request.

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It is easier to file for divorce now. So, it is still possible to save your marriage? The short answer is yes but you need to take a hard look at the strains your marriage has on both of you and you need to work on yourself. The good news is that when you are willing to change, you will influence your spouse to change as well.

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The collective male’s attempt at piquing a woman’s interest runs the gamut from demonstrating a lightning-quick wit and sharing interesting stories about himself to doing magic tricks like a clown out of Barnum & Bailey’s circus.

But more often than not, her eyes wander to her cell phone and then meander to the people behind him.

In fact, just about everything in her environment seems to enthrall her except for him, causing a billion and one insecurities to snake into his mind, such as…

1). She must think I am ugly as sin.

2). Does she find me as boring as Velveeta cheese?

3). Do I have the personality of a houseplant?

4). Did I forget to wear deodorant?

5). Is my ego going to be an obituary in tomorrow’s paper?

And if he’s bitter, he might think: She’s like a warm toilet seat – some guy was there before me, another will be there when I get up.

Like a hard working mule, he takes one last crack at making conversation.

But, alas, she stings him with, “It was nice meeting you but I have to go.”

In retrospect, he may think: Damn! That fall-asleep boring conversation piece took the pickup to a crippling halt. It was like the one unlucky drink that shoves a wavering alcoholic off the wagon. I should have never used it.

Most of us have experienced something along these lines.

Many of us have thought: If I only had more interesting things to say, do, or show women, my outcome with them would be completely different.

Although there may be a speck of truth here, most great orators, politicians, and salesmen will tell you, “The content of what you say is far less important than how you say it.”

I’ve seen comedians put an audience in stitches one night yet bomb the next. While the standup routine they used was exactly the same on both nights, their delivery was completely different.

For this reason…

You won’t learn any interesting conversation pieces, cute lines, or fall-on-the-floor-laughing jokes in this article.

Instead…

I’m going to teach you a communication secret that captivates women.

But before I go on, I want you to make me a promise (and, as you’ll see in a few minutes, this promise is for your own good)…

No matter how boring you think you are (even if you think you’re more boring than a 90 year old woman living in a nursing home), I want you to promise me that you won’t change the content of what you say to women for one week.

Here’s why…

I want you to see how adding just this simple secret to what you currently do and say when interacting with women can dramatically increase your success.

In school, you’re taught to finish a thought or idea before moving onto the next. Great advice if you want to plunge women into a narcoleptic stupor.

But if you want women to hang onto your every word, you need to break this crippling habit and start using nested loops.

A nested or open loop is when you start an idea, thought, or story, and instead of finishing it, you move onto something else. In other words, you keep the loop open.

Whenever the human mind is presented with an open loop – unfinished idea, thought, or story – it seeks closure.

Open loops are a form of what I call “tension loops” because they create unresolved emotional tension in a woman.

Even if a woman finds you as interesting and attractive as a sewer rat, the open loop unconsciously compel her to hang onto every word that pours out of your lips and emotionally drives her to see you as a valuable Prize.

Because she seeks resolution to the tension you’ve sparked in her mind and knows that you can release the tension, she perceives you as having value and heeds close attention to everything you say.

Imagine a slovenly bum and a high maintenance babe crossing paths. The bum makes a tragic try at conversation with her by saying, “Hello. My name is Jack and I am homeless. Let me tell you about how I became homeless.”

Chances are, she’d have no interest and scurry off because she finds him aesthetically repulsive, possibly scary, and of little value.

But if he fired an open loop at her, such as, “You know what they say about women with green eyes?” he would probably spark unresolved tension in her body. She’d feel a yen for emotional closure. Closure only he has the power to bring her.

And bada bing, bada boom…

This vagabond she normally would never give the time of day to piques her interest and has value (or Prizability) in her eyes.

Furthermore, open loops can build sexual arousal…

When you spark emotional tension within the context of flirting with a woman it becomes sexualized in her body.

But there’s a facet of open loops I haven’t mentioned yet…

It’s called the “Zeigarnik effect.”

One of the early contributors to Gestalt psychology Bluma Zeigarnik noticed that waiters remember orders up until they serve the food. Then they forget. This led to the discovery that the mind retains the most information when a loop is open.

How does this help you? A woman will probably remember everything you tell her between opening up a loop and closing it.

I want to share with you a powerful application of open loops I learned from watching politicians…

Oftentimes, when politicians are asked a question, they skirt around it for several minutes, talking about almost irrelevant topics, before directly addressing it. This keeps the listener in suspense.

How can we apply this to seduction and attraction?

Here’s an example…

When most men meet a woman they utter their name and then shake the woman’s hand. Usually that’s it. The interaction is over.

An hour – or even a few minutes – later she probably won’t remember his name or anything about him.

Instead, when a woman asks me my name I use an open loop.

I may say,

“When I was a kid my mom told me that she and my dad originally named me Arete, which means all the qualities that make up someone with good character.

And I said, ‘Wow, mom… that’s awesome! Why didn’t you keep the name?’

And she said, ‘Well honey, you’re lucky we didn’t name you Arete because it’s the name of a goddess from Greek mythology.

But we didn’t really give a crap about you having a female name.

The real reason we didn’t name you Arete was that our dog was named Arete – we really loved the name.

And on the day you were born our dog was hit by a car. When we looked at you, we didn’t want you to remind us of the dog. So we named you Josh instead.’”

In lieu of giving her the instant gratification of learning my name I’m using an open loop. This builds unresolved tension inside her body.

Her unconscious mind seeks to bring closure to this loop, inciting her to hang on to my every word.

Had I just told her my name from the get go, she might have judged, “This average looking guy probably lives a boring life,” and then moved onto another man.

But by using an open loop, I had an opportunity to demonstrate that I come from cultured people, have a sense of humor, tell great stories, and possess value (or Prizability).

Plus, due to the Zeigarnik effect, she will remember that I was the guy almost named Arete.

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Whether you know it or not, there’s an obstacle you must get past to be successful with women in bars and nightclubs.

It’s rare to see attractive girls at bars by themselves. Usually, they come with friends in tow.

Have you ever chatted up an attractive female and thought, “Smooth sailing from here on in,” but then her friends took her away from you? That’s because you didn’t know how to deal with them.

Here’s a painless way to get inside her social circle…

Ask her group of friends for their opinion on something.

If you do this correctly you will engage the whole group in conversation and become part of her social circle. Here is a simple example authored by Neil Strauss

Say to the group, “Guys… I want a quick opinion on something.” When you get their attention say, “Who do you think lies more – men or women?”

Every one will put their two cents in.

Then ask, “Do you think men or women are more likely to cheat on their partners?”

The men from her social circle will argue, “Women.” The women will argue, “Men.”

This sparks a heated debate amongst the group. And guess what, my friend?

You instantly become the ringleader of the group. So you have the power to take the conversation in any direction you choose.

Now you can hit on the girl and her friends won’t care. That’s because they see you as part of her social circle.

One last point: your energy level needs to be a little bit higher than the group. Otherwise, you will bring down their energy level and they will get bored.

Likewise, if your energy level is too high, you’ll jar them.

Either way, they’ll ask you to leave.

Here is your homework: Think of five interesting questions you can ask groups of people. These are your conversational gambits.

The next time you are at a bar or nightclub and spot a woman you would like to meet, approach her social circle with one of these gambits. I think you’ll be surprised how well it works.

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We have all had it happen…

You’re attracted to a girl.

But there is a little problem…

She feels no attraction for you.

Can you change how she feels?

Most dating experts will tell you, “If a woman isn’t physically attracted to you, move on.”

Refrain from doing this. You’re stifling your chances with her.

Despite what you look like, you can use a few simple yet powerful attraction secrets to trigger attraction in her.

One of my favorite is called a “Tension Loop.” It was invented by the world famous seducer Swinggcat.

A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.

Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months – sometimes years! The structure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week’s show.

Within the context of dating and flirting, this tension becomes sexualized.

A powerful Tension Loop Swinggcat uses a lot is called “Push-Pull.”

Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally Push a female away from you and then emotionally Pull her back in.

Each Push sparks emotional tension and each Pull releases it.

Let’s look at an example…

Say to a girl, “You have the most beautiful smile I’ve seen tonight.”

She’ll gush, “Thank you.”

Then say, “Actually you have the fourth best smile I’ve seen tonight. I’m gonna call you number four.”

She’ll demand, “But I wanna be number one.”

Respond with, “Because you’re feisty, you just moved up to # 3.”

She may whine, “But I wanna be # 1.”

Warn, “If you keep complaining I’m demoting you back down to # 4.

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